We need to cherish our marriage...

While driving to Dear hse last night, he din take u usual route n I keep asking him why. But he keep saying he's bringing me somewhere.. I was wondering wat's up.. But also feeling a little funny abt his action. We stopped at our usual
picnic venue n dear killed e engine. Next he said, can we don't quarrel anymore?

I was surprised by his action. Didn't know Dear will inititate this talk. Explained to Dear it's inevitable we'll quarrel. So I said let's have an agreement on how to approach each other that will not irritate each other when u're angry. Before we could come to a conclusion, Dear started driving away cos his eyes is hurting him.. Dunno shld I be angry or to laugh now.. Feel
he's like a kid whom will just walked away while u're nagging away...

Dear said, we should cherish our marriage. Let learn to cool off for e day if we quarrel then talk again after we calm down.

I'll try. Men character is to stop when they dun wan to go on. Women is to go on till they get an answer.. Guess both of us need to comprosed each other...

Why ?

After 2 mths of disappointment, I'm tired liao. It's mental disturbance which keeps u wondering what's wrong? Why? I've been monitoring, din tell me I got it all wrong? I thought it's this way but seems like it's not. Told myself not to think or bother it too much but I can't. I will still wonder hey! How come? Been reading so much to learn abt it but something is still not right...

All along we din plan for it but just let it happens.. But somehow it was just that coincidence planting on D-day but...

What went wrong??